03/05/15 Om Shanti Avyakt BapDada Madhuban 28/11/79
“How to remain free while living at home with your family.”
Today, BapDada was seeing a particularly special group of
His long-lost and now-found children, a handful out of
multimillions, who know the Father and claim their
inheritance from Him. Which group would that be? Today, He
was especially observing the children who live at home with
their families. He also observed the homes of all the
families. He looked at the places where they interact with
one another. Whilst observing the homes,, Baba also saw what
influences there are of the impure elements and the adverse
situations, and what influences there are of the kingdoms.
Whilst observing this, Baba also saw the wonders of some
children - of how they remained free while living at home
with their families. Those who maintain a balance between
their freedom and their family lives are playing very good
and elevated parts. They play their parts of being the
Father’s companion and detached observers very well, and
have become practical examples in front of the world.
Because they constantly stay under the canopy of protection
of remembrance of the Father,, they remain constantly safe
from any type of war by Maya and any type of Maya’s
attractions..
When the Father sees such detached and unique children, He
constantly sings songs of their praise. Baba also saw some
other children who live at home with their families.
Because the children have honest hearts, the Lord is always
pleased with them. Because they know the secret of remaining
loving and detached, they are always happy with themselves
and also keep their families happy. BapDada too is always
happy with them. Children who are raazyukt (who understand
all secrets) and who constantly keep themselves and everyone
else happy don’t need to hire an advisor (kaazi) either for
themselves or for others. They have no case for which they
would need to have an advisor. Many times, you would have
heard the saying: “When the husband and wife are happy
together, what can a third person do?” You must have many
cases of your own sanskars, where you keep on debating with
yourself. “Is this right or wrong? Should this happen or
not? To what extent should this happen?” This debate
continues all the time. When you are not able to decide for
yourself, you have to make someone else your advisor. For
some, it would be for a small matter, whereas it would be a
big thing for others. However, if you and the Father were to
make the decision together, everything would be finished
within a second and there would then be no need to have an
advisor, a judge or a lawyer.
One of the laws of a family is that when something happens
in a family, the parents would not allow the news of it to
reach their children. They would clear everything there and
then and merge it, that is, they would accommodate it within
themselves. If the news of the situation reached a third
person, it would definitely spread and the more something
spreads the more it increases. To the extent that a physical
fire spreads, accordingly it causes that much damage. All of
these small matters are like fires of the different vices. A
fire is extinguished there and then and not allowed to
spread. In your family, only you and the Father should know
about anything that happens; it should not reach a third
person even though that one may be close and even in the
family. Husband and wife should become happy with one
another. To become upset (naraaz) is like not knowing the
secret (raaz). It is when you miss out on one or another
secret of knowledge that you become upset, either with
yourself or with others. When you hire a lawyer, a small
matter becomes a big case. Therefore, to relate anything to
a third person means to spread the things of your own
household outside. In the world nowadays, all the big legal
cases are printed in the newspapers. Here, too, they appear
in the newspapers of the Brahmin family. Therefore, why
don’t you resolve it between yourselves? Between just you
and the Father; no third person should know anything of it.
Some children have a thought that reaches Baba. They think
that it’s fine for husband and wife to settle everything,
but, sometimes, because the Husband is incorporeal and the
wife is corporeal, they don’t match each other so well, and
this is why there is sometimes a meeting and at other times,
there isn’t. Sometimes, the heart-to- heart conversation
reaches Baba and sometimes it doesn’t; that is, sometimes,
you don’t receive any response, and this is why you have to
have an advisor. However, you have found the Husband who has
many forms. Whatever form you want Him to have, He can
present Himself in front of you in that form within a
second. However, like the Father, you also have to be one
with many forms.
The Father can make you fly and take you with Him to the
subtle region within a second. The Father comes from the
incorporeal world into the subtle world, and so you too can
come from the corporeal world to the subtle world. At least
reach the venue of the meeting! The venue also has to be
beautiful. The subtle region, the angelic region, is the
meeting place. The time for you is fixed; you’ve made the
appointment; the venue is fixed; so then why does the
meeting not take place? The only mistake you make is that
you want to go there with the clay. This body is clay. When
you have to work with your clay, then do so! However, at
the time of the meeting, you have to renounce the
consciousness of your body and put on the same dress as the
Father’s. They have to be the same. From being incorporeal,
the Father adopts an angelic costume – BapDada becomes the
angelic and the incorporeal together. You too have to put on
your angelic dress and come here. Only when you wear your
shining dress will the meeting take place. Do you not know
how to put on this dress? As soon as you put on this dress,
you can reach here. This dress is waterproof and fireproof
against any form of Maya. It has also been made proof
against the attitudes and vibrations of this old world. You
have been given such a beautiful dress, and yet you don’t
put it on when you have your appointment! Do you love your
old dress more? It looks very nice if both are wearing a
shining dress when you are in the region of light. If one is
wearing an old dress and the other is wearing a shining
dress, the couple is not matching, and this is why you do
not have an experience. The old vibrations interfere and
this is why you don’t receive any response to your
heart-to-heart conversation. It is because you are not able
to understand clearly that you take some temporary support
of others.
In fact, this relationship of Husband and wife should be so
close and loving that you would be able to understand
everything just through signals. Even more subtle than
signals, you should be able to understand one another
through your thoughts. This is such a relationship of love!
Then, why do you allow a third person to come between you?
To allow a third person to interfere means to waste your
time and energy. Yes, you can tell another person what your
heart-to-heart conversation was like. You can co-operate
with one another on this level and share your experiences
with one another, but you mustn’t have a heart-to-heart
conversation with a third person making that one your
advisor. Don’t talk to one another as though you have a
case. So, let go of the advisor and make up with one another
and become happy. Since you have chosen your Partner, why do
you allow a third person to come between you? When you
allow someone else to come between you, you end up in the
middle of the ocean. Then, your Husband has to make the
effort to save you and this is why the task of world
transformation is left out. Then you ask when destruction
will take place! Since you wives are not yet ready, how can
destruction take place? Do you now understand why
destruction is not taking place? When you don’t even know
how to change your dress, how are you going to change the
world? Achcha. He will tell you about the condition of the
householders some other time. Today, He spoke to you of your
internal household.
To those who are constantly raazyukt and yuktiyukt and who
always have a close relationship, to those who are
constantly happy and who keep others happy, to those who are
constantly able to celebrate a meeting, to the children who
are detached observers and the Father’s companions,
BapDada’s love, remembrance and namaste.
Elevated avyakt versions of BapDada for the teachers:
Teachers are the most elevated souls, the same as the
Father. Teachers should make a new plan every year. Even
students are able to make service plans, so what do the
teachers especially have to do? Now, create such a gathering
that everyone says that, although you are many, you are
united. Here, you have two - Didi and Dadi - and yet
everyone experiences them to be one, and so this makes a
great impact on everyone. Since they are two and yet give
similar regard to one another, the two are visible to all
others as one. All of you can also give the example of One,
while there are many of you. People say that all of you
speak the same things; everyone says what one of you says.
You all dress in the same way. The words you all speak are
the same points of knowledge. Although the way you speak
knowledge may differ from one another, the essence of it is
the same. Similarly, you must make such a group that
everyone says that all of you are not many, but one
(united). This is the speciality, is it not? Someone should
be the instrument to become an example who everyone can
follow. Whoever takes this initiative becomes Arjuna. Who
will become Arjuna? Those who become Arjuna will receive the
first prize. However, you do have to pay attention to
something. What is that? What do you have to pay attention
to? You have to co-operate with one another and see each
other’s specialities, and not see each other’s weaknesses.
Don’t listen to them either. You will have to make this
practice very firm. Whilst seeing everyone, accommodate the
weaknesses of those souls and co-operate with them. You
should not reject such souls, but have feelings of mercy for
them. Just as you are merciful towards souls who are
experiencing sorrow, so you must also become merciful
towards the weaknesses. What will happen when you become
merciful in this way? Although you are many, you will also
become united. In the world outside, what do sensible and
loving families do? They accommodate each other’s
weaknesses. They co-operate with one another and thereby
glorify the family name. They would help a poor member of
the family and make him full. This too is a family. What
should you do if some are influenced by their sanskars?
Co-operate and encourage them. Increase their enthusiasm and
make them your companions. Then, although there are many of
you, all of you will be seen to be united. Is it difficult
to do this? Since you are images that grant blessings, such
blessed souls as you do not look at anyone’s weaknesses. So,
what will you do? Demonstrate by dropping such an “atmic”
(soul conscious) bomb. This is the duty of you teachers.
Just as the Father doesn’t keep the children’s weaknesses in
His heart, but, as the Comforter of Hearts, comforts your
heart, so too, the teachers must be the same as the Father.
Don’t look at anyone’s weaknesses! Instead of taking their
weaknesses into your heart, comfort everyone’s heart in the
same way as the Comforter of Hearts does. Then, everyone
will sing songs of your praise and, no matter whether they
are your companions or your subjects, blessings will emerge
from the lips of all of them. Blessings should constantly
emerge from them of your being constantly a very loving and
co-operative soul; one who is equal to the Father, the
Comforter of Hearts, in comforting their hearts. Only then
would you be called a worthy teacher. If teachers continue
to look at everyone’s defects, what difference would there
be between the students and the teachers? A teacher is one
who is seated on the Father’s gaddi. You are seated on the
Father’s gaddi with Him, are you not? The companion would
sit the closest of all, would they not? Teachers means those
who are seated on the gaddi. So, now perform such wonders!
Do you now understand who should be called a teacher? Anyone
can claim a prize in this. A teacher should never speak of
anyone’s weaknesses. Teachers should only speak of
specialities. A teacher means one who is equal to the Father
in supporting those who do not have courage. Do you
understand who is called a teacher? There has been good
expansion, now, create the essence of the gathering.
BapDada meeting groups:
What form does BapDada constantly see in all the children?
The Father constantly sees the complete and perfect form in
the children because He knows that, although you may be
fluctuating today, you have to become unshakeable. You were
this and you have to play that same part again and become
perfect. This fluctuation only comes in the middle; it
didn’t exist in the beginning and it will not be there in
the future. This is a matter of the middle period.
Therefore, the Father constantly sees each of you children
in your elevated form. So, what should you children do?
Children should always see their elevated form. Then, you
will never come down. You have stayed down below for so many
births! For 63 births, you have been experiencing coming
down. You have become tired whilst coming down, haven’t you?
Or, do you still want to taste some more? You now constantly
have to ascend. Your descent has finished. Only the
confluence age is the age of ascent. Then, your descent will
begin. If you are going to keep ascending and descending in
this short time, then when will you ascend? You tell others,
“If not now, then never!”, so you have to remind yourself of
the same thing. If you do not ascend now, then your descent
will begin. So, constantly have an ascending stage and will
really enjoy yourself. Nothing will be lacking in this life.
In your future life, you will not even be aware of the
contrast between having all attainments and no attainments.
At this time, you are aware of both, and so the pleasure of
it is experienced now. To become a Brahmin means to finish
all desires. Since the Father has given you all treasures
and also the key to the treasure store, why do you still ask
for things? Is it that He is still hiding something that you
are asking for something? The Father has given you
everything you need without your having to ask for it. The
Father does not like your form of asking for something.
Would it seem right if the child of the Master of the World
asks for something? He has already given you what you need.
So, what are you going to do now? When you constantly
maintain the intoxication of being the children of the
Master of the World, your begging for anything will stop.
Now, fly everywhere the flag of being the conquerors of
Maya. When this flag is flying high, all other flags will
come down. You are now pulling the cord of the flag. Then,
when the flag is flying high, the flowers of revelation will
shower down on everyone. Make one another co-operative and
spread the vibrations of being a conqueror of Maya. Make
your fortress strong. Make your fortress so strong that Maya
has no courage to come. If she does come to someone, chase
her away from a distance.
Blessing:
May you receive the elevated reward and experience the
ascending stage by keeping all the attainments of the
confluence age in your awareness. 
The speciality of a meeting with God and God’s knowledge is
to experience imperishable attainments. It is not that the
confluence age is a life of making effort and the
golden-aged life is the life of a reward. The speciality of
the confluence age is that, when you take one step, you
receive the reward of a thousand steps. So, it is not just
an effort-making life, but a life of an elevated reward.
Constantly keep this form in front of you. On seeing the
reward, you will easily experience the ascending stage. Sing
the song, “I have attained that which I wanted to attain”,
and you will be protected from choking and nodding off.
Slogan:
The breath of Brahmins is courage which makes even the most
difficult task easy. 
Om Shanti