10/05/15 Om Shanti Avyakt BapDada Madhuban 30/11/79
“The qualifications of a soul who is stable in his
self-respect.”
BapDada sees each child as a multimillion times fortunate
soul. The elevated reward of each one is constantly in front
of the Father. This is what the unlimited Father is proud of
in His children. So many of His children are supremely
worthy of being worshipped by the world. Although all of you
effort-makers are numberwise, even the last numbered child
is worthy of being remembered and worshipped by the world.
Even today, that last child is still being remembered and
worshipped. So many children of the one unlimited Father
become so worthy! Now just consider how multimillion-times
fortunate all of you are! Even today, your devotees thirst
for a glimpse of you numberwise souls of the deity religion.
It is because you became so fortunate and worthy in the
living form that even today people still thirst for a
glimpse of you. This is why BapDada is proud of even the
last bead of the rosary of 16,000. No matter what type of
effort-maker you are – whether a careless effort-maker, a
mediocre effort-maker or an intense effort-maker – you
belonged to the Father and became worthy of being remembered
and worshipped. By being in the company of the Lord of
Divinity, you have changed from being iron to being like an
alchemist’s stone. An alchemist’s stone is definitely highly
valued. This is why in your self-respect you must never
consider yourself to be anything less. Do not become body
conscious. Those who maintain their self-respect will never
be arrogant; they are always humble. The greater your
self-respect, accordingly you will be humble in saying: “Ha
ji”. Those who maintain their self-respect are bestowers who
give respect to others. Those who maintain their
self-respect are bestowers of respect to souls, whether they
are young or old, enlightened or unenlightened, conquerors
of Maya or influenced by Maya, virtuous or those who still
have one or two defects, that is, those who are still making
effort to become virtuous: because they are full themselves,
they will constantly be merciful. A bestower means someone
who is merciful. Such a soul would not have the slightest
thought of bossing any other soul about. Souls either have
mercy or become bossy. “Why is this like this? You shouldn’t
do this! This shouldn’t be like this! Is this what knowledge
tells us?” All of these thoughts are a trace of subtle
bossiness. This is why a merciful bestower who maintains his
own self-respect would give respect to everyone and in this
way uplift them. If an effort-maker falls because of some
weakness or because of carelessness, even if he comes down
from his stage, you are souls who maintain your self-respect
and remain charitable. The duty of a charitable soul is to
uplift souls who have fallen and make them co-operative, and
not to say: “Why did you fall? You should have fallen! You
are experiencing the fruit of your own karma! Whatever you
do, you will definitely receive the return of it!” Souls who
maintain their self-respect would not have such thoughts or
say such words to anyone. Such charitable souls would
completely free souls from whatever influence they are
under. They would not have any trace of bossiness. This is
what is known as having self-respect. Such souls would never
be body conscious. BapDada sees each of you children with
the vision of you being a charitable soul. Follow the
Father.
You residents of Bombay are clever in following the Father,
are you not? Bombay was the father’s place and that was why
sakar Baba went to Bombay a lot. However many times sakar
Baba went there, you received that much sustenance. So, you
residents of that land are charitable souls, that is, you
can transform the sins of others. Do not look at anyone’s
weaknesses (kami), but look at the wonders (kamaal) they
perform. Then, whatever weakness there is will change into a
wonder. You are the great souls who reside in the land of
charity, are you not? The people of Bombay will become
number one, ever-ready souls. The flames of destruction can
emerge at any moment. Are you ever ready for this? You would
not begin to make preparations at that time, will you? You
would not think that you have not yet become complete or not
yet created your subjects, would you? You have to become
full of everything in advance. Even nature is waiting to
become your servant and to serve you. A servant would
definitely wait upon his master. Therefore, constantly
remain in the stage of a master.
BapDada meeting kumars:
1) Kumars and Brahma Kumars.
You are a kumar in your family life and a Brahma Kumar in
your Brahmin life. You are not just a kumar, but a Brahma
Kumar. If you remain just a kumar, Maya will come to you. If
you remain a Brahma Kumar, Maya will run away. So, just as
Brahma is Adi Dev (First Deity), similarly, Brahma Kumars
are original jewels. The children of Adi Dev are master adi
dev. When you consider yourself to be an original jewel, you
can understand the value of your life. All of you are the
jewels of Prabhu (God), the jewels of Ishwar (God), and so
you have so much value. When you constantly consider
yourselves to be the children of Adi Dev, master adi devs,
the original jewels, then whatever work you carry out will
be powerful, it will not be wasteful. The busier you kumars
remain in service, the more you will be able to conquer
Maya. Do not keep yourself free!
2) Kumars are free from bondage in every way.
You are free from bondage in terms of your worldly
responsibilities and also free in terms of being bound by
Maya. You do not have to depend on any bondage. The sign of
someone being free from bondage is that he is constantly
yogyukt. Someone who is yogyukt would definitely be free
from bondage. There wouldn’t even be any bondage of the
mind. Worldly responsibilities are like a game. Don’t fulfil
them as though they are a bondage, but fulfil them as a game
whilst laughing and playing; as if you are following
directions and you will not then get tired over trivial
matters. When you think of them as a bondage, you start
feeling harassed and ask questions such as: “Why?” or
“What?” However, when you consider yourself to be playing a
game and following directions, you will remain tireless. The
Father is responsible and you are just an instrument. Kumars
are doubly free from bondage because you have no tails
(partners). Constantly remain lucky. Do not be afraid. It is
very good to prepare food just by yourselves. You can cook
food for yourself and the Father with a lot of love. First,
offer it to the Father. When you consider yourself to be
alone, you get tired. Constantly remember that there are two
of you: you and Baba. When you have to prepare food for
someone else, prepare it accurately in the right way with
love and you will enjoy yourself a great deal. You kumars
should form a group so that if one of you falls ill, someone
would be responsible to look after and serve him. Never
think of attaching a tail (a partner) to yourself;
otherwise, you will become very distressed. Externally, you
would not be aware of this, but if you attach a tail to
yourself, there will then be difficulties. At present, you
are free, but then your responsibilities would increase.
Have all of you made the Father your Companion? So, would
you leave one Companion and make someone else your
companion? Even in worldly life, this is not considered
good. So, you kumars should never consider yourselves to be
alone. It is when you consider yourself to be alone that you
become unhappy.
Kumars should become a volcanic form of fire and ignite the
flames so that destruction can take place very quickly. So,
now intensify the fire of yoga, so that the flames of
destruction become powerful.
You are not those who ask “Why?” or “What?” in any
situation, are you? Only those who are not master
trikaldarshi would ask such questions. Those who know all
the three aspects of time would not ask questions such as:
“Why?” and “What?” Only little children ask: “Why?” or
“What?” All of you have reached your stage of retirement. By
remaining in the stage of retirement, you will also remain
beyond any type of Maya. The clearer the line of your
intellect is, the faster your speed of effort will be. Are
the lines of all of you clear? Kumars can perform great
wonders. You are a spiritual youth group, are you not? If
the youth of today wishes to change the Government, they are
able to do so. Those people carry out destruction, whereas
you bring about construction. It is not destruction that you
have to bring about. When you carry out establishment,
destruction takes place by itself.
A kumari is said to be more elevated than 100 brahmins, and
so how many are you kumars more elevated than? One kumar is
shown with seven Sheetlas (Goddess of Coolness), and so you
are more elevated than 700 Brahmins. Kumars are hard workers
and can do whatever they want. Each of you kumars should
prepare your own group. Have a race, not a competition,
amongst yourselves. No matter how much Maya tries to shake
you, you must remain like Angad and not be shaken even
slightly. Maya should not even be able to shake you by your
nails. If you have even a slight sanskar of weakness, Maya
will make you belong to her. Therefore, die alive; die alive
to your old sanskars. Any obstacle is just a lesson for you.
By learning these lessons, you will pass with honours.
Whatever happens, you should learn a lesson from it and not
start asking too many questions of “Why?” or “What?”
Kumars are constant servers, you do all-round service. You
serve through your thoughts, words and deeds. Since there
are so many all-round servers, there are many hands
available. Together, you can all perform great wonders.
BapDada meeting Udhar-Kumars (married brothers):
For half a cycle you have been visiting places for a glimpse
(darshan), and the Father has now come from the supreme
abode to have a darshan of you. Looking at something is
called having a darshan. The Father comes to see His
children. Here, it is not that type of a darshan. Here, to
have a darshan means to celebrate a meeting; it is a darshan
through which you become fully satisfied. Udhar kumars are
those who constantly live in a pure household. In an
unlimited household, you are constant servers, and in a
limited household, you are constantly detached. This group
of udhar kumars is a bouquet of lotus flowers.
While living at home, your stage is that of a destroyer of
obstacles, is it not? The stage of a destroyer of obstacles
is to be constantly equal to the Father; it is the stage of
a master almighty authority. When you remain in this stage,
no obstacle will attack you. When you are not constantly in
the stage of a master almighty authority, sometimes
obstacles will influence you and sometimes you are able to
destroy obstacles. For however long you are influenced by an
obstacle, you accordingly incur a loss of one hundred
thousand- fold. When you spend an hour in a worthwhile way,
you accumulate one hundred thousand-fold. Similarly, when
you waste an hour, you incur a loss of a hundred
thousand-fold. Therefore, now finish your account of
wastage. Pay attention at every second. You are the greatest
children of the greatest Father, and so you should
constantly pay attention to this. While living at home,
remain constantly free from Maya. Remain loving whilst
detached. By carrying out your household duties whilst
remaining detached, you become constantly Maya-proof, that
is, you remain detached. Those who are detached are
constantly loved by God. To be detached means to be a
trustee. A trustee has no attachment to anyone, because he
has no consciousness of “mine”. So, all of you are trustees,
are you not? When you consider yourself to be a householder,
Maya can come. However, when you consider yourself to be a
trustee, Maya will run away. When you have the consciousness
of “mine”, you give birth to Maya. When you have no
consciousness of “mine”, Maya cannot take birth. Just as
insects breed in rubbish, so, too, Maya takes birth when you
have the consciousness of “mine”. So, the easy way to become
a conqueror of Maya is constantly to consider yourself to be
a trustee. All of you are clever in this, are you not? A
Brahma Kumar means a trustee. Although you live at home, you
are a Brahma Kumar, not a household kumar! When you remain
aware of being a Brahma Kumar, you remain detached whilst
remaining in your household. However, if, instead of
considering yourself to be a Brahma Kumar, you consider
yourself to be in some other relationship, Maya can come.
Therefore, constantly remember your alokik surname.
You are experienced about everything in your worldly life.
Are you just as experienced in being a master ocean of
knowledge, who discovers the jewels of experience by going
into the depths of knowledge? What do you discover when you
go the bottom of an ocean? Jewels! So, too, the more you go
into the depths of knowledge, the more jewels of experience
you will discover. By doing this, you will become an
embodiment of experience. Then, when others see how
experienced you are, they too will become experienced. Have
you become experienced in this way? One is to listen to
knowledge and speak knowledge, and the other is to become an
embodiment of experience. To listen to knowledge and speak
knowledge is the first stage and to become an embodiment of
experience is the last stage. The more experienced you
become, the more eternally free from obstacles you will
become. Continue to develop your experience and become an
embodiment of experience of every virtue. It is important
that you have the experience of whatever you speak of. All
of you Pandavas are embodiments of experience, are you not?
When someone tries to shake an experienced person, he is not
able to. Whatever Maya tries to do to an experienced person,
she would not succeed. You are experienced in the obstacles
of Maya, are you not? An experienced person would never be
deceived. Make your foundation of experience strong..
Constantly continue to progress at a fast speed of effort.
When you are fully stocked with pure thoughts, all your
waste thoughts will stop. Continue to churn one or another
point of all the knowledge you hear every day. To have waste
thoughts means to lack the power of churning. Learn how to
churn knowledge. Just take one word and go into the depths
of that word. Give yourself a topic to think about every day
and then your waste thoughts will stop. Whenever you have
any waste thoughts, come to Madhuban with your intellect.
When you remember the atmosphere and the elevated company of
Madhuban, all your wastage stops, and your way of thinking
changes. If you udhar kumars don’t become Brahma Kumars, you
cannot make progress. When every action you perform is in
the awareness of your being a multimillion-times fortunate
soul, each of those acts will be elevated, and many others
will continue to receive the message through you. You are
messengers. Wherever you go and whoever you come into
contact with, continue to give them the Father’s message.
Continue to sow the seeds. Never think that you have given
knowledge to so many and yet only two to four have emerged
from that. Some seeds bear fruit quickly, whereas other
seeds bear fruit according to the season. These seeds are
imperishable and will definitely bear fruit. Therefore,
continue to sow the seeds; continue to give the message to
everyone. Constantly keep a balance of remembrance and
service and become blissful. Achcha.
Blessing:
May you have a right to the throne of the kingdom and book
the ticket to be part of the “Lok Pasand” (People’s
Assembly). 
When you have any thought or idea, first of all, check
whether that idea or thought is one that the Father would
like. Whatever the Father likes, people will automatically
like. If anyone’s thoughts have any selfishness in them,
that would be said to be something liked by the self,
whereas if it is for the benefit of the world, people will
like it and God will like it. To become a member of the “Lok
Pasand Sabha” means to attain a right to the kingdom, that
is, to the throne of law and order.
Slogan:
Experience God’s company and you will remain safe and
experience everything to be easy. 
Om Shanti