21.05.2015

Self-Acceptance
Self-Acceptance is an agreement with yourself to
appreciate, validate and support who you are
right now, even those parts you'd like to
change. Look at yourself in the mirror. Take a
moment to love and accept the person you see
looking back at you.
Humility-2
Humility brings
learning. Where there is humility there is
willingness
to learn. When humility is lacking, ego comes
which doesn't let us
learn from all situations and people. The power
of humility enables us
to learn and move forward. When I'm faced with
criticism, I need to
see what I can learn from it, instead of feeling
bad about it. Even
things that go wrong have something to teach me,
if I am willing to
learn. With humility I continue to learn.
Negative
Control And Positive Influence
The power of
influence in relationships is extraordinary, but
it practically disappears when we try to
exercise control and force.
You can influence anyone positively in many
ways:
* encouraging,
* sharing,
* listening,
* communicating in the right way.
In negative control
we generate stress, frustration and anger. In
positive influence the energy flows in a
relaxed way with harmony and is not threatening,
respecting each one for their specialty and
allowing each one to be as they are.
In order to influence positively we need the
power of discrimination and judgement in
relation to what to say and what to do e.g. when
you believe that the other person is the
problem; generally the problem is not what
others say or do, but rather how you perceive
them. The way that you judge is what creates
your negative feelings about them. We have
the choice to perceive others as a threat, as a
problem, or as an opportunity; an
opportunity for learning, for change, for
dialogue and understanding. We can choose to
have compassion (kindness); to feel that the
other is a problem indicates a lack of
compassion.
Soul Sustenance
Soul
Power over Role Power (Part 2)
Continuing from
yesterday’s message, the various components
of soul power are:
The power of inner silence or the silence of
my mind - Silence is a power. The fewer the
thoughts in my mind and the more powerful,
positive, peaceful and focused they are, the
more my mind will contribute to the success of
the role on a subtle level. My silence is
regularly tested when faced with negative
situations or obstacles. The more successful I
am in maintaining this stage in such situations,
the more is my treasure of silence collected
over a period of time and the more positive the
influence of this silence will be on my physical
role and the success of various tasks connected
with the role.
The power of inner and outer carefreeness,
happiness and contentment - Happiness not
only inside but also giving others an experience
of the same through my face, my eyes, my words
and actions full of lightness and enthusiasm,
etc. while coming in contact with them. Ensuring
I am content with myself and others and also
others are content with me. Regular periods of
discontentment or unhappiness either within me
or in my relationships affect the success of my
role adversely.
In
tomorrow’s message, we shall
explain the remaining components that make up
soul power.
Message
for the day
When there is
determination in my thoughts, the clouds of
negative situations will fade away.
Expression:
There are a lot of negative
situations that come my way, as I am moving
along. During the difficult phase I tend to
experience a lot of negativity within too,
either in the form of fear, anger or pain. At
that time the difficulty seems very big and
seems to last forever.
Experience:
I need to recognize the fact
that whatever difficulties I face are like
passing clouds. These clouds come at their time
and fade away at their time too. I need to
develop the determination to work on my problems
with this understanding. I will then be able to
face the situation with ease.